Ben's Book
2020
January 04, 2020 11:15 AM

Benji’s making a picture book of the things he loves. I asked him if I’m it.
“Yes, you’re on page 4.”

Just glad I made it in.

January 12, 2020 07:28 AM

We took advantage of the break in winter to enjoy some time out in the mud yesterday.

February 07, 2020 12:27 PM

Didn’t realize there was a hole in the hoodie until we arrived at school and someone pointed it out.

March 09, 2020 07:56 AM

Last week was Dr. Seuss week. Kudos to Marcy for staying up late every night working on that hat!

March 19, 2020 03:01 PM

So if you are really bored, here are some videos I took today of Benji and ... ok mostly just Benji. Just us hackin around. If you need some 5 year old cheering up this might help.

March 26, 2020 09:32 AM

School time.

March 26, 2020 11:02 AM

He said, “Canada and United States are like brothers.”

March 26, 2020 11:13 AM

He did this himself (except for the 2’s that I did after his backwards one). I’m frankly floored as he read that entire paragraph out loud, then the questions. I didn’t teach him how to read, I guess he learned it in pre school. Kid is not even in kindergarten yet. Back in the Stone Age when I started school they didn’t teach reading and writing until grade one.

March 27, 2020 01:39 PM

When he finished I asked him, why are there numbers on the side? Well, they are the age group he feels each of those rows should be for. Lol The App Store gives these to all the games he downloads. He’s only allowed 4+ (free) so I guess it’s his way of making a statement about this math assignment.

March 29, 2020 12:43 PM

Watching Mo Willems lunchtime doodles.

April 03, 2020 12:43 PM

He made his telling time cheat sheet into a watch.

April 03, 2020 01:08 PM

Day ? We don’t really know. We stopped counting. We don’t even care. Sun goes up. Sun goes down.

April 04, 2020 05:38 PM

Call me when the canona virus stops.

April 15, 2020 08:42 AM

Pictures of things Benji loves on his bedroom wall. Mom and dad, check. Old hot dog wiener, check...

April 21, 2020 07:30 AM

Just a boy and his rescue bots.

April 23, 2020 09:40 PM

Diaper on head. This amuses Dad.

April 24, 2020 05:23 PM

My little boy’s missing tooth gap is getting an adult tooth! Every time we reach another milestone I say to myself, “shit’s gettin real.”

April 30, 2020 01:22 PM

Ben and I were out for a drive this morning and saw this super cool totally haunted old house.

May 03, 2020 06:41 PM

Dinner time around here.

May 14, 2020 08:42 AM

No caption needed. Just Ben. Or, as he likes us to call him now, BB.

May 20, 2020 09:04 AM

10 minutes in of Ben playing Minecraft unsupervised:

Me- Hey Ben, how’s it going?
Ben- I’m riding a horse and eating ham!!!
Me, having a look- What are all those little red blocks tumbling everywhere?
Ben- Well you have to kill the pigs before you can eat them!

May 25, 2020 08:33 AM

Breakfast outside this morning.

May 26, 2020 04:36 PM

We had an old fashioned Dad and Benji day today. Washed the car this morning, Benji did an awesome job vacuuming ( which he of course named Slurpy). Then McDonald’s for lunch with milkshakes. Then off to the beach to cool off. Great day.

June 05, 2020 12:21 PM

Picked up Ben’s stuff from the pre school today, and got his “graduation” pictures.

June 15, 2020 12:31 PM

Nice surprise in the mail box today from Canada, for a lucky boy. And I got all the blue smarties! The moose shirt is adorable. Benji says thank you Aunty Evelyn and Uncle Paul

July 01, 2020 02:19 PM

Howdy everyone. It’s been a while. Just been busy with The Dad and Ben show during the day and working evenings and weekends, while Marcy works from home. Always tired, but not complaining. We’re truly privileged to be able to stay employed and also not be forced to send Ben to daycare/school. In fact Marcy got a big promotion at work so things are good, all things considered. Congratulations Marcy!!!

You may or may not know that here in the excited states the virus is raging at unprecedented levels, and growing daily. While Ohio made some impressive early lockdowns and measures, and was hailed at first for being one of the states that “got it right”, we eventually re opened everything and am now seeing the results, with many more new cases than during the lockdown. And it’s pretty much out of control now.

The big news here is that elementary schools are re opening in September, with staggered schedules and part home schooling combined with part time classroom. Ya we won’t be participating in that. We’ll be keeping Ben home until there is a working vaccine. Officially home schooling him, such as that is for kindergarten.

So for now it’s just keep going. Masks when anywhere indoors around people, like when grocery shopping, and spending lots of time outdoors and at the beach while keeping a safe distance from all humans.

It’s heartbreaking that the big first day of school milestone is all messed up because of this damn virus, and we have to pass play areas when kids are there without being able to play. It’s heartbreaking that just when Ben was finally making friends and having fun at pre school, he’s back to being stuck with mom and dad every second of the day, but it could be so much worse. We’re super lucky and healthy and will survive this damn thing, and hope for a vaccine by year’s end as predicted.

Hope y’all are staying mentally positive and physically virus free and oh ya HAPPY CANADA DAY!

July 17, 2020 12:33 PM

A bit of creekin today.

July 22, 2020 08:21 AM

I see this, this morning, after finding 3 empty pudding cups after he was in bed last night. Ok. (Full disclosure. I think Marcy helped him with the spelling)

August 05, 2020 02:10 PM

Going through my old Facebook albums. The way Benji’s looking at you lol

August 10, 2020 09:11 AM

Benji lost his first baby tooth yesterday. Actually his second, but the first fell out due to a fall when his baby teeth were still coming in. So his second adult tooth is coming in...at 5 1/2!

We were eating an apple in the car when he said, dad my tooth is wiggly.

August 13, 2020 08:09 AM

So I finally get a subscription to Apple Arcade for Ben, and he’s so excited he fist pumps the air and yells, goodbye reality, hello Apple Arcade!!!

August 16, 2020 04:55 PM

It feels like when we moved a “real” bed into his room and you stand back and remember that this was a baby’s room just a few years ago.

August 24, 2020 09:53 AM

Just in case there was any doubt...that my arms come out of my face.

August 31, 2020 08:29 AM

About to start our first day of school. Dad is so nervous.

September 16, 2020 07:00 PM

Where’s Benji?

September 20, 2020 11:52 AM

Watermelon from our garden. It’s pink, and has about 4 billion seeds, but man is it good. So sweet and tasty. It’s almost as if fresh stuff is better or something.

October 02, 2020 10:43 AM

While doing kindergarten on the computer today, Ben gets something wrong and says, “Well like the 3 Stooges say, anything the Wright brothers can do, the wrong brothers can do!”

I’m fairly certain he’s the only kid in kindergarten quoting the 3 stooges. (And correctly too!)

October 08, 2020 09:41 AM

Pomade makes the man.

October 12, 2020 05:14 PM

Blowing bubbles while pointing out the wonderful fungi. It’s an action shot I guess.

October 15, 2020 10:02 AM

Wanted to post these pics from yesterday because of Ben’s interesting wardrobe choices. Also, a first. He actually asked if I wanted my picture taken!
I thought I was smiling. Makes me wonder what I’ve been doing with my mouth all my life when I thought I was smiling.

October 21, 2020 03:23 PM

He doesn’t wear the hat just for for looks. It serves a purpose, as he walks he picks up rocks and leaves and sticks and dried up flowers, and puts them in his hat. By the end of the walk the hat weighs about 10 pounds and is bent in half on his head.

October 27, 2020 08:37 AM

Ben going through his closet this morning- “Now what weapon should I choose today?!”

November 08, 2020 09:16 PM

The boy is gettin some hair.

November 26, 2020 06:19 PM

If only there was a machine I could use to extract all the energy from my almost 6 year old son and convert it into electricity. Like one of those wave machines or tidal things that convert the back and forth actions into electric power.

November 30, 2020 06:37 PM

Benji says to me, baby carrots come from baby farmers.

December 01, 2020 04:20 PM

First year for Ben on the big kids hill. Did he love it? You be the judge.

December 02, 2020 10:16 AM

I pass by the bathroom door. I stop. I back up and look inside. I take this picture and move on. Yes he’s sitting on the loo.

December 12, 2020 08:55 PM

So guess what? 6 gets even weirder!

December 25, 2020 11:38 AM

Merry Christmas everyone, hope you are all having a nice day. Miss you all.

December 29, 2020 07:28 PM

This one from today, because of the lighting. Would be a good movie poster for Lord Of The Flies.

December 29, 2020 07:33 PM

Took a while but finally got one of the boy and the dog that wasn’t a blur.